INSIGHT w/ BDSM class by BAADMASTER (and public social) ~ Friday 6/12

Founder of TSRnetwork.com

Founder of TSRnetwork.com

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Rev Mel will be giving away lots of interesting kinky things at her class this Friday at the Lair de Sade.

INSIGHT is the place for people from all walks of the lifestyle new and old to come, chat, make connections of any sort and have a great time. It’s the time and place for those who are new or curious about The Lair to come check out the place and maybe get a tour from our seasoned members.

Insight Schedule

8:00pm – Doors open to the public for tours, socializing and vending
8:30pm – Introduction to BDSM and the Lifestyle with Rev Mel
9:30pm – Featured Insight Presentation by BAADMASTER
11:30pm – Last call for Spanking & Socializing

6/12 FEATURE PRESENTATION:
“BDSM: Yesterday, Today and Tomorrow.”

BaadMaster, in cooperation with Lair deSade, takes pride in presenting an audience- interactive panel discussion, “BDSM: Yesterday, Today and Tomorrow.”
With a panel of BDSM luminaries, hosted by BaadMaster, this will be an entertaining and enlightening look at where BDSM was, where it is now and where it is likely going.
The Panel:
Ken Marcus. An award winning glamour and fetish photographer with a lifetime of experience in BDSM, Ken’s work is published throughout the world and is easily recognized by his attention to detail and for his portrayal of bondage and fetish themes.
Eko Foxx is a 24 year old professional BDSM entertainer, award winning pet show contestant, fetish model, lifestyle masochist, and active participant in the Los Angeles kink scene.
Master Eragon. One of the true technical experts in the use of floggers, whips and restraints, he has been one of L.A.’s top BDSM performers for the past decade.
Rev Mel Female Dom with 20 years in the lifestyle, founder of TSRnetwork.com and host of The Rev Mel Show for over 12 years. BDSM consultant, educator and freedom rider and have been teaching S/m open forum class at the Lair de Sade for 12 year..
And your emcee, BaadMaster, one of the original members of Conquest/Lair. In addition to giving Insight presentations at Lair deSade, he has also hosted the “BaadMasters Dungeon” Internet show and has written extensively about all things BDSM.

PLEASE NOTE: INSIGHT is primarily a social & educational event. While spanking/bdsm activity is permitted on the premises; there is NO sex, and NO nudity of any kind allowed during INSIGHT.
If you are not sure about going or on the fence because you are nervous send a private message with questions and concerns so we can make make it easier for you to join us 😉
INSIGHT IS OPEN TO ALL. No membership required to attend this event but you can purchase one anytime during the event if you’d like so you can return for our private parties where anything goes!

 

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Saturday, June 13, 2015 2:00pm-5:00pm Whips, Paddles and Floggers Oh My! An Open Forum For The Beginner with Rev Mel

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Saturday, June 13, 2015 2:00pm-5:00pm

Whips, Paddles and Floggers Oh My! An Open Forum For The Beginner
with Rev Mel

New to BDSM or perhaps your partner asks you if you have ever had a whip, paddle or flogger used on you before but you have no idea what they are talking about? Then this class is for you. You will learn the right way and the the wrong way to negotiate the best scene for the both of you.

This hands on class will also share the basic beginning tools of BDSM with an open forum for the beginner in mind. Instructor Rev Mel invites seasoned players to join in the conversation and demo how to use some of Stockroom’s wonderful implements.

About the Instructor:

Rev Mel is a Female Domme with over 20 years in the lifestyle who is also an ordained minister who firmly believes that religion and hot sex go hand-in-hand. She is a BDSM consultant, educator and freedom rider. Revmel founded The Sacred Realm known as The Church of Perversion and Debauchery (COPAD) in Los Angeles. She has also been teaching the S/m 101 open forum at the Lair de Sade for over 12 years. . Rev Mel is also the founder of BDSM Pride Day and the TSR Peoples choice awards which is a live broadcast from Hollywood, CA. Host of the Rev Mel show on TSRnetwork.com each Monday night, she has interviewed Jay Wiseman, Venus De Mila, Guy Baldwin, Midori, Nina Hartley, Hudsy Hawn, Mistress Melissa and many other outstanding leaders in the BDSM Community. The Rev Mel Show is live on Monday nights at 8 PM PST only on TSRnetwork.com, your place for Live Kink TV…

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Abuse is Abuse

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Abuse is abuse and our community has shut down the voices of the abused and put a label on it and that is drama. We are protecting the abuser and silenced the the ones that was abused. Yes, there are two side to every story but once the abused come out to the community they are attack. The abused hide in shame and emotional pain and it’s a lonely place to be.They feel lost and shut down and no where to go for help.

While the abuser is out abusing more and having a great time at it. With out even taking any responsibility for their action. Have you ever seen an abuser come out publicly and say yes what I did was wrong? There has only been one time have I ever seen this and it was at Insight at the Lair de Sade. Lord Dan gave a talk and talked about how he treated women and the said I’m so sorry that I did that it was not right. Now, that’s an amazing man to own up to his faults. That day he became a hero to me and he showed me that we must take responsibility for our actions in life and to give anyone that has been abused their voice.

Being an Ordained Minister many come to me with stories of abuse and I see the pain and shame in their eyes as the tears run down their faces. I can only listen and hold them in my arms and help them work though their pain. Many of the abusers are people that I know personality in the community. I have lost respect for so many as I have listen to the people that they have harmed.

Their big blotted egos is their trade mark as they hide in their blank eyes of the abuse they have done to so many. I know their secrets as I have listen to countless stories that I could write a book on it. Because things are told me in confidence I must keep all of this to myself and never talk about it publicly. But I have seen abuse first hand the negative mark that leaves on our community. This is real and we can’t hide from it as there is so much abuse in our life choice. Abuse comes in all shapes and forms and it leave a lasting imprint on ones mind, body and soul.

We will continue on this road if we don’t allow the abused to stand up and open a dialog about what they went through and stop telling them that your just making drama. We need to stop protecting these abusers as it is creating a very toxic world that we live in.

I as a Dom have seen this over and over again. Also, as Dom’s we sometime do not take our stories of abuse out to the public as we also hide in shame. We have one life to live in this body and our goal is to live it with honor and integrity if you’re abusing someone then you should own it and change your actions.

Just because you own someone does not give you the right to abuse them. Shame on anyone that does this as we are so busy protecting reputations of people who really don’t deserve it.

Walk in peace, love and joy,
Rev Mel

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Naughty and Nice with Miss Cassie Guest:David Lawrence

Naughty and Nice with Miss Cassie Guest:David Lawrence

Watch this video on YouTube or on Easy Youtube.

Naughty or Nice with Miss Cassie live on TSRnetwork.com at 9 PM PST April 14, 2015 come and join us in the chat room. With guest the DavidLawrence april 14

From; his web site https://shibariartphotography.com/about-david-lawrence/
David Lawrence has been a master of expressive portrait, social function and people photography for more than 25 years. During that time styles and fads have come and gone but David’s methods have remained true and effective. The tenets his work is based upon are not a matter of style but of substance.

David became interested in Shibari, the Art of Japanese Rope Bondage, in early 2003. With a keen artist’s eye, David recognized the inherent beauty of rope on skin. Shibari quickly became a passion, one that developed more intensely as he worked with and experienced the magic of rope. David’s talent and skill truly emerged as he delved deeper into the art of tying rope. His ties are meticulous, intricate, intense and beautiful. In fact, they are all true works of art.

David’s gift to us is his ability to expertly blend his two passions; rope and photography. As a result, his striking images communicate sensuality, eroticism, and the force of raw emotion. His use of lighting, angles, and sheer creativity is the key to his poignant imagery.

TSRnetwork Proudly Serving the Alternative Lifestyle Community There is not a street in United States that someone is not being tied to a bed, blindfolded and spanked. We are not that much different then the vanilla world. ,

Go to: [http://TSRnetwork.com/] or click on following links
http://tinyurl.com/TSR-Watch-Live
http://tinyurl.com/TSR-Youtube
http://tinyurl.com/TSR-Group-Fetlife
Pop Up Chatroom,
http://tinyurl.com/TSR-ChatRoom
We are the Real 50 Shades of Grey….
#bdsm
#tsrnetwork.com
#fetish
#talkingsexradio.com
#therevmelshow
#DavidLawrence
#naughtyornicewithmisscassie

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The Rev Mel Show with Guest The Creators of Whiplr

The Rev Mel Show with Guest The Creators of Whiplr

Watch this video on YouTube or on Easy Youtube.

We are a talk show with no nudity and we talk about keeping people safe and the community safe. We are not porn and just interview authors and teachers in the life choice.whiplr

We are the Real Fifty Shades of Grey Talk Show as we highlight on education, safety and people in the know about this life choice.

The Rev Mel Show TSRnetwork.com at 8 PM PST April 13, 2015 come and join us in the chat room. With guest the creators of Whiplr.

From the Whiplr Blog:
Whiplr announce the launch of Whiplr – a messenger with kinks. Whiplr is the first mobile messaging app aimed squarely at people interested in fetish and kinks. The app is available for iOS on the App Store and for Android on Google Play.

Whiplr works for you whether you’re an expert or just a beginner. Whiplr allows Curious Carl to learn from Experienced Emily. It’s a messenger with kinks that helps you communicate with like-minded people in a welcoming and secure environment.

TSRnetwork Proudly Serving the Alternative Lifestyle Community There is not a street in United States that someone is not being tied to a bed, blindfolded and spanked. We are not that much different then the vanilla world.

Where to watch the show?

Go to: [http://TSRnetwork.com/] or click on following links
http://tinyurl.com/TSR-Watch-Live
http://tinyurl.com/TSR-Youtube
http://tinyurl.com/TSR-Group-Fetlife
Pop Up Chatroom,
http://tinyurl.com/TSR-ChatRoom
We are the Real 50 Shades of Grey….
#bdsm
#tsrnetwork.com
#fetish
#talkingsexradio.com
#therevmelshow
#whiplr

Shows Produced by M.A.P. Production and TSRnetwork

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For the Newbies and not so new by Warlock

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by Warlock 17 days ago
Hi! And welcome to the exciting world of kink. I’m sure it feels very exciting, wonderful and fuzzy. !!! But !!! Please take a bit of time to understand what you are getting into, how to navigate this whole new world and how to keep yourself safe and sane.

Please be aware that this choice puts you in a very vulnerable place, even people who have been around a long time can slip and miss warning signs at times. Spend the time you need to educate yourself, read all you can, ask questions, make choices about what you desire or will not put up with and be firm on those choices.

Always remember “No means No” Without consent, what we do is abuse and punishable by law. Don’t let anyone convince you otherwise.

To start you on your path to enjoyment I have a few links to various postings which I believe are informational, relevant and educational. It is by no means exhaustive, but there should be enough to spin your mind a little. Beyond that, proceed with caution, stay safe and enjoy life.

Some groups with various forms of information. As always, take everything with a grain of salt. Adopt what feels right to you and discard that which feels wrong or does not fit.

Informational

Novices & Newbies
What It Is That We Do
Morals and Ethics
Mentors
BDSM Glossary
All I Need to Know about Play Parties, I Learned in Kindergarten
A Checklist

Bad behaviors

Predators
Sexual Predation
Narcisists
Sociopaths/Psychotics

Some essential reading by various people..

Sub Frenzies
A guide to finding that first Dom
Defining Your appetites 1
Defining Your appetites 2

Creepy dom
Red Flags and Dating Tips
The “Don’t Fall for it” list
An essay on Predators
Brainwashing
Hypno-Puppeteers

If you have a link that you feel would be of benefit to the community, please send it to me and I’ll post it here.

Warlock

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Rev Mel will be on Between the Sheets with Lora Somoza on TradioV.com

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Rev Mel will be on Between the Sheets with Lora Somoza on TradioV.com March 16th at 3 PM PST.

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On Between the Sheets Interview

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Watch Recorded Show;

http://tradiov.com/la/videos/sheets-3-16-15-world-domination-rev-mel-sir-nik-satanos-ward-swan/

Lora Somoza
Lora Somoza is the host of the weekly “Between the Sheets with Lora Somoza” every Monday on TradioV.com and on iTunes.
Often referred to as “The Naughty Dear Abby” Lora is the author of the ebook “Bliss in the Bedroom” and a contributing columnist for The Huffington Post, LA Weekly and the Examiner, to name a few. Currently, Lora writes an online sex advice column that goes out bi-weekly to over 30,000 loyal readers all over the world with circulation growing everyday. Known for her blunt, straight talk laced with her own brand of humor, her readers are fiercely loyal followers.
Lora has been heard on The Playboy Channel, KABC Los Angeles, KBPI Denver, and The Naughty Show. She has also been a frequent guest on The Dr. Drew Show on HLN.

TradioV.com

http://lorasomoza.com/

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So They Said It Would Not Last

1 - CopySo they said it would not last but 12 years of broadcasting just shows that we are here to stay. We have lasted longer then any other BDSM network or shows. We started doing just a radio show and then came the Live broadcasting TV shows and we are still live.

We are live because of the dedication of the show hosts and the guest and most of all the people that have tuned in live or watched the archive shows. Over the last 4 Years we have over 4 million viewers and in the last year over 800,000.00 have watched the show.

We have interview hundreds of guests that come live on the show and will continue to do educational and informative shows.

Losing the studio three years ago was a huge set back but the last year showed us that TSRnetwork matters and so many people wish us to continue. For all the critics over the last 12 years we are still here and broadcasting.

Our Hosts do this from a part of their heart that says We Love Our Community in BDSM. These day with so many people coming in from the book and movie Fifty Shades of Grey, TSRnetwork at time is the door way to the vanilla world where they can come and watch real stories and advice from real people in BDSM.

We do this because of the love of BDSM and from wanting to educate new people to our life choice. We do this because it’s in our hearts and soul. For all the critics over the last 12 years that have said to shut down we say to them we are still here and broadcasting and education and saving lives. We believed in what we are doing as we are watched all over the world and in every state here in the U.S.A. We now have friends all over the world and get lots of letters saying thank you.

TSRnetwork had documented the last 12 years of our life style with such amazing guest that it makes my heart spin. To all the host present and past and guest and viewers with that I say THANK YOU FOR BELIEVING IN US AND BEING A PART OF TSRNETWORK.COM The Real Fifty Shades of Grey.
#tsrnetwork
#bdsm
#therealfiftyshadesofgrey
#real50shadesofgrey
#talkingsexradio
#BDSMTV

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So it Begins The Hollywood Reporter “Student Charged With Sexual Assault Says He Was Re-enacting ‘Fifty Shades of Grey”

 Courtesy of Cook County Sheriff

Courtesy of Cook County Sheriff

The University of Illinois at Chicago student allegedly beat his victim with a belt while sexually assaulting her.

We will see more and more of this sort of press and actions. The book and movie is out there and now we must work on education and keeping our life choice safe. Leaders in your community must work together in educating people that coming into the life style. Sorry to say we will see more this in the up coming year from this book and the movie.

hollywood reporter

http://www.hollywoodreporter.com/news/student-charged-sexual-assault-says-777463

Excerpt from the Story:

A 19-year-old University of Illinois at Chicago freshman was arrested on Saturday, charged with one count of aggravated criminal sexual assault. He allegedly told police that he and the 19-year-old woman he was with were re-enacting Fifty Shades of Grey scenes.

Hossain allegedly proceeded to cover her eyes with a knit cap, remove the rest of her clothing and hit her with both a belt and his fists. When the woman told him to stop, started crying and began to wiggle her arms free, Karr said Hossain held her arms back and sexually assaulted her. Prosecutors said when Hossain’s roommate came home following the incident, Hossain held the door shut. Eventually, the woman left and called the police.

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Where are all the Fifty Shades of Grey Events? They have been here all the time.

thereal50-copyWhere are all the Fifty Shades of Grey Events? We have all been here well before the book or the movie. Countless people from all over the world have been living this life choice of Fifty Shades of Grey for thousands of years.

This is not going to change who we are or affect us in the long run. Fads fade out but the Real 50 Shades of people will never be just a fad.

I get so many people in my class S/m 101 Open Forum at The Lair de Sade that have read the book and are curious some will deiced that this is not for them and many will be our leaders of tomorrow. I support all the new people that keep our life choice going onto the future.

We are not a book a movie or adverting campaign we are real people that live breath this train of thought of BDSM and S/m and so much more.

Just like the Story of O, Exit to Eden, 9 1/2 Weeks and The Secretary it has not changed our life style and it might add a moment of excitement to our conversion but its not going to make us better or worst.

In a few months it will be Netflix, Amazon and Google Play and it will move into the past. it will be talked about about 20 years from now when someone do a fad timeline ..

So you want a Fifty Shades of Grey Event just go one of your local dungeons or munches and start really seeing what we are all about. Fifty Shades of Grey is just a book and a movie and nothing more. It does not represent who we are as a community or a life choice. We are who we are and nothing is going to change this.

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