Thizbee

Staff Writer

Thizbee Sez Bio Here’s a laundry list of labels to describe who I am…

Polyamorous

Predominately Dominant
Pansexual
Genderfluid
Mom
Writer
Music lover
Opinionated
Libra
Dragon
Death
Indigo Child

But that doesn’t really tell you anything about me. I could say I love pizza and bowling, but that’s not really all that I am. I am in the process of self discovery that’s taking all of my life. The more I know, the more I realize there is yet more unknown. Please read more about my experience with TBI (traumatic brain injury): https://sites.google.com/site/thiz833sez/in-the-begining/about-me/tbi I love many people, in many styles of relationships. But please know, I am the one who chooses who is in my life and how. My first Poly was around age 6. When asked who was my best friend, I mentioned 4 people and when I was told I could only pick one, I thought that was the dumbest things I had ever heard. I describe myself as Predominately Dominant because, although I have lived my kinky life as a sub and a switch, and though I still dig pain… I am not gonna kiss anyone’s ass to get it. Around age 8 there was a very pretty little girl in my class whom I would “bop” on the head. When a teacher asked me why I was being mean to her, my reply was, “Cus she likes it.” And that’s all kink really is right? Yes it’s a little crazy compared to the vanilla world, but if we are truly honest with ourselves, the answer to why we do it is the same, “Cus she likes it!” Although I use the term “Pansexual” for familiarity I have an affinity towards the definition of “omnisexual” (expressing or involving sexuality in many different forms, with a variety of sexual outlets.) Since the brain damage my self identity has changed drastically. One of the biggest changes is how I experience gender. I have found the term “Gender Fluid” is akin to that identy. Although I have girl parts, I don’t always identify emotionally as a “woman;” it’s more of this “all genders/some genders/one gender/no gender” mish-mash. My personal Goals: To celebrate and support polyamorous individuals, groups, and their families by sharing what I know to aid them in having healthy polyamorous relationships. And to provide education to Poly and non-polyamorous people, alike, and promote and support the rights for polyamorous people. My Hopes for the future:

To live in a world in which polyamorous relationships are accepted as valid and protected from discrimination.
That no one is ever made to feel that their loving relationship is “wrong”
All alternative relationships are respected and celebrated.

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