How I spent my BDSM Pride Day 2013

BDSM Pride Day what did I do on this day of celebrations? I could have went to a dungeon and did something kinky but I decided to stay quiet and thank about what BDSM Pride Day means to me.

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Freedom to be who I am

Realizing that it’s OK being different then my vanilla friends and family.

Enjoying being open about my life in BDSM.

Having friends to share our life choice with.

Being a part of a community that is bigger then just me.

Knowing that anyone of us can make a difference.

Learning that being transparent is not just a word but really acting opon the word and truly be transparent .

My word is my bond and truth and honesty is not only the foundation of BDSM but also my foundation.

The first thing is to keep myself safe and take time to rest and understand that it’s Ok just to be still.

¬†BDSM Pride Day is all of those things and more as I don’t need a big party to celebrate, that just sitting at the ocean at sunset and being at peace with one’s self. It is a celebration of life from the kinky side of fence. It is joy, love and peace knowing that I don’t have to do anything as BDSM Pride Day is in my heart and soul.

 

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Rev Mel is a female Dom with over 20 years in the lifestyle and an ordained minister who firmly believes that religion and hot wet sex go hand-in-hand. She tells it like it is, and preaches that a life filled with indulgent sex is a life that?s fun, sanctimonious and worth living. To her critics, she responds, ?What?s the big deal? Our mothers and daughters do it? even the government representatives who want to control how sex is depicted in our culture do it ? sometimes in ways their constituents could never imagine.? Host of the Rev Mel show on TSRnetwork.com each Monday night and she has interviewed Jay Wiseman, Venus De Mila, Guy Baldwin, Midori, Nina Hartley and so many other outstanding leaders in the BDSM Community. The Rev Mel is live on Monday nights at 8 PM PST Only on TSRnetwork.com your place for Live Kink TV... She founded The Sacred Realm known as The Church of Perversion and Debauchery (COPAD) in Los Angeles and TSRnetwork.com and the Sacred Realm and is a BDSM consultant, educator and freedom rider. The Sacred Realm is an alternative non-traditional spiritual group that embraces all sexual orientations and sexual practices. We welcome all lifestyles and anyone who wish to explore their spiritual side of life. Rev Mel is also the founder of BDSM Pride Day and the TSR Peoples choice awards a live broadcast from Hollywood, CA. BDSM PRIDE DAY is OUR day: a day of unity- a day for BDSM-coming-out ? a day of protest against discrimination ? a day of celebrations and parties ? SM Pride! The last 10 years Rev Mel have been teaching the S/m 101 open forum at the Lair de Sade a class for new people to this life choice.
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